THE WINTER READING

Reading is a wonderful pastime. It is a hobby that transports the reader to different places. Readers can meet different people in different time zones or eras.

There are few aspects of reading that I follow consistently. I would like to share the same here.

  • Reading outside early morning undisturbed helps – helps one to unwind and start the day in a very relaxed manner.
  • Read books that are not connected to one’s area of specialization. I am an Economics teacher by profession, but I read a lot about History, Literature, Geography and Philosophy.
  • Make sure one does not read more than 10 pages a day. Reading should be followed by reflection too.
  • Read different books each day. If one reads a biography today, read a literature book tomorrow.
  • Read one fiction a month – it be romance, thriller or a murder mystery.
  • Treat vacations as an opportunity to read.

I travel to different locations, find places to rest and read regularly. This winter vacation I read:

  • Agatha Christie: Closed Casket by Sophie Hannah.

This was an unfinished murder mystery by Agatha Christie, which was completed by the Author Sophie Hannah. Unlike the earlier mysteries, this book does not have the thrill nor was it gripping. The twist and the turns were pretty predictable. Hercule Poirot was not characterized as expected. The character seems to talk a lot and hardly uses French during his exclamations. Yet, the English County and their everyday rituals are well described.

  • How To Become CEO. An Amazon.com Top 10 Business Book. The Rules for rising to the top of any organization by Jeffrey J. Fox.

This was a good book to read – short, sweet and crisp. This book is practical and provides tips to handle workplace conflicts. It guides on navigating one’s career using simple but effective strategies. This book is an ideal gift for a BBA or MBA student. The suggestions also help mid-career professionals. This book has to be read once without a break – it’s in fact, a good airport read. Read it once from the first chapter to the last. Then, choose any chapter that resonates with you. Work out the strategies mentioned there.

  • Effective Life Management by Swami Amartyananda

This book was a simple book written in a lucid language. The book was more about disciplining oneself. There are a lot of examples from the life of the Holy Mother Sri Sarada Devi and Swami Vivekananda. The book does not give out any new ideas; it rehashes the ideas read in different self-help groups. The last section of the book completely focuses on SDM (Satsang, Discipline and Meditation). It explains each aspect in detail. It also describes how this helps in self-discipline. This isn’t an airport. It’s a book you can leaf through while having a morning cup of coffee.

Reading is varied books, expands our mind – this is definitely a different form of meditation.

Exploring Kawaii: The Cute Art Movement of Japan

The image here is based on the number ‘Walk this way.’ This number is by the American rock band Aerosmith in 1975.

This image is from the Kawaii art form. This art form targets teenage girls – who love cute, pretty things.

Kawaii is usually found in cute, themed coloring book. Kawaii is a Japanese word. It roughly originated during 1970s. Kawaii features building and food items in a cute, simplified and aesthetic way. It is usually based on playful themes.

Initially, this art form was popularized by specific style of handwriting – Burikko – ji. This style was later influenced by Manga, Anime.

India does not have any single art form that is akin to Kawaii. Yet, in terms of aesthetics, there are various regional art forms. To list a few examples, there are Gond Paintings from the tribals of central India. Madhubani from the Mithila region of Bihar is another example. Warli from Maharashtra and Patta Chitra from Odisha and West Bengal are also notable. Cheriyal Scroll from Telangana is another cute art form with bold colors.

Kawaii, just like the Indian art forms, helps with emotional regulation. It provides an effective non-verbal way of communication. It is also a wonderful pastime that makes everyday life cute and cozy.

SELF-PACED COURSES

Being a teacher and being a passionate teacher, I love professional development courses. It lets me meet new people in my profession, I learn from them and they from me. I get to network. I get to apply new teaching strategies after these courses. I upskill.

Thought, these courses have a lot of advantages; it has disadvantages too. One of the disadvantage is that I had to travel.

But, technology is a boon. Most of the teachers or organizations support teachers to sign up for these self-paced courses. These courses can be done at our own pace, get our assignments peer-checked and share our views with other teacher participants without disturbing our regular schedule. I love these courses.

the magic of massage

Hit 40s, early menopause symptoms – back ache, pain in the shoulder, neck pain, knee pain, degeneration of bones – all kinds of medical terms – doctors state. It is true, as well.

Medicines, treatments and injections…… what not to cure ourselves. I prefer Ayurvedic massage and steaming, instead.

A full body massage with warm oil; and steam for a few minutes – allows the oil to enter the opened pores after massage.

Massage and steaming – works. Amazingly ! Try it.

buy lumhaa : the memory jar

Getting a personalized gift or creating one is a joy in itself.

Lumhaa provides us with an opportunity to create one. What started with an app to store memories, has turned into a beautiful online shop where we can make jigsaw puzzle with ours or our family photos.

The shop also sells cute pack of cards – Family cards , self-reflection cards. These cards have a set of questions – we could ask each other in a family gathering. I would say, it is way better than the boring Antakshri or choreographed family dance.

Try Lumhaa!!

DOG – A GOOD WALKING PARTNER

Exercise is something, I never liked it. Though Doctors have been insistent that I exercise – especially walking. It never interested me.

An addition to my family – Maggie made all the difference. Walking – once in the morning, twice, thrice and four times in the evening – pushes me to exercise.

The fun part of walking many times a day with a serious walking partner is the area we get to explore – unchartered territories and new insects we get to meet.

Dog is a wonderful walking partner – quiet, focused and adventurous. Get one.

AN EVENING WITH SHRIYA SEKSHARIA

I had the privilege of spending an evening with Shriya Sekhsaria – the CEO of Lumhaa.

A sweet, sensitive and very clear-headed young entrepreneur. Her vision about her career and her business; the warmth with which she addresses her employees shows a businesswoman who cherishes her dreams and her people.

Do invite her to your organisation or get in touch with her and get to know her and her products @ https://www.shriyasekhsaria.com/

She will definitely leave you with a smile.

the noon nap

It’s a bliss, I tell you. A must do when you hit the 40s. Heaven compared to the night’s sleep. A lovely rest time till we wake up for a strong cup of evening tea.

The way to nap is what I enjoy the most – find a recliner (bed/cot definitely not recommended), hold on to a news article that you started reading or a book you are reading. Your eye and brain rapidly co=ordinates in the beginning, you manage to read a page or a few paras – one, two, wait two again (last lines appear blurry), you get to three (words disappear) – drowsing slowly descends.

You can fight it for a few minutes – but sleep finally wins. Then just close your eyes, loosen your body and let things fall around – books/newspapers, let out a deep sigh and plunge zzzzzzz.

Have a good nap.

destressing craft works

As we grow older there is a need to engage in activities that involve hand and mind co-ordination. Craft work is one such task. Sewing, embroidery, crochet making, band making, cross-stitching – these are few I have found people drifting to. This bug has caught me too. I make bands. I use my feet, my fingers and my mind. A simple, effective way of de-stressing myself. The intricate patterns that design, the knots that I pull and the scissoring that I do helps me oblivious of the world around me. It silences my mind and makes me feel more active and energized. Sometimes, I feel more feminine, I guess that’s a bonus.